who am i

"iTs not about being who eveRyone else wants me to be, iTs about being mySelf and finDing someOne wHo lovEs every bit of me!"

So bubbly! You always have the reason to laugh when you are with me!

I believe that “still waters run deep” as I am emotional but tend to hide my emotions. I can bear the pain of losing than winning at others expense.

I may look stern but actually considerate. Knowing me won't take much time.

Anyone who has not earned my respect will fall to the wayside. I will be happy to be with others as long as I will not be hurt. I am suspicious at times and I can sense whether or not people welcomes me. I will give you my love and loyalty as long as I don’t feel my freedom is threatened in any way.

I should never be taken lightly. I am dead serious when it comes to learning about others and will not stop my investigations into anything until I get to the absolute bottom of things. You won’t get much out of me, though; as I am complex and secretive and too much prying can push me away. I live in a black and white world with no use for a gray area. I live life on my own terms and can be overbearing or seen as self destructive, but I will bounce back from any setback or criticism.

I am grounded and secure. It takes a lot to shake me. Morals are important to me but I can be impulsively angry. My sharp tongue know the exact words to best hurt the one who has ignited that anger. Once I’ve had my say, the anger fizzles out quickly and is soon forgotten. Being able to stand up to my sharp tongue and expectations will go a long way toward earning my respect. Once you have that respect, my cheerful disposition will appear to brighten up your day.

I am a “go anywhere type” of bunch that love to travel. However, more than the actual travel is the experience gained from such adventures. I prefer to travel alone but not against going in a group.

Talking about friendship, I seem to be able to make and keep good friends because I appreciate the importance of friendship; I try especially hard to improve the relationships I have.

In love, I tend to take things carefully and slowly. Looks and brains? I am as balanced as they come. I know brains are important, but you also know that, for the bond to last, you need to be emotionally connected and physically attracted. I have faith in myself! I can be devoted and caring lover, however, when crossed can be vengeful and vindictive.

As to color preference, I’m into olive green - the most real of all the green shades. It signifies being always true to myself. For me, authenticity and honesty are very important... both in others and myself.